One thing that not a lot of people understand or probably even believe is that they take after their parents during their teenage years too. What is most ironic is that teenagers actually idolize the most in those years. It is mainly because after they are done rebelling then they realize theat they have been living wrong for the past few years. It is a very quick step in their life and they do not really know how exactly to go about it. They know that they have idolized you before they completely disregarded you entirely. So they realized they have to do it right by taking after you, peice by peice. Now they try to remember how you handled things the best they can and the closest time to the presence which would be the teenage years.

     Now I know that teenager years are very hard and agrivating because I know exactly what my brother is putting my parents through and I know all of his freinds. Truthfully, the main people I study are typical teenagers so i know as much as one could. It is very important if you think the way that your anger could eventually go, so you must keep very calm at every moment even durring the most agrivating times of a childs teenage years. Then the child will realize that after his adolescence and take after your actions. If you get angry and show nothing but fury to him then he will show the exact same syptoms as you have done durring that time. It is the same thing as potty training a toddler or punishing you son when he cries. The only difference is this is showing them by example subconsciously and not pushing it onto them. All of us know that you cannot tell a teenager anything, he/she wil have to learn from experience. This is not telling him nor giving them the true experience but when they mature they will only have a vague idea the way to act and them pursuing this so they have an idea to learn on their own.

     Showing a teenager anger is how anger management problems get passed down and begin. This is how household violence begins and almost everything in the same pattern begins as well. We all want to stop all of the violence in this world and this is the best way to do it all. By influencing your brand new generation, just knowing how to do it the right way. We just have to be calm and benelovent at all times. Also, try to give them examples of sins and give them rewards when they show progress, even as teenagers. Now they might not appear like they are listening but they are, they are just trying to look rebellious while deep down they ackknowledgeand listen.

     Now this might be the hardest time for the parent but you must realize that it is the most valuable and if you ignote this time then you might as well give up.